Trust is complex.

Trust is truly a complex subject. Is it something we overthink? Do we place excessive value on it? Is it something we must actively cultivate? Does it come naturally with time or is it a conscious effort? In my life and the lives of many I care about, I’ve observed that trust exists at a surface level, but a part of us remains skeptical and resistant to complete trust. Is it even possible for humans to blindly trust, to silence emotions and place full confidence in things unfolding as desired, in people, and even in a higher power?

I often hear people say that trust enhances life’s experiences. If trust is betrayed, the sentiment is that it wasn’t meant to be. So, when this happens, what’s the right course of action? Should you rebuild trust once more? Should you accept life as it is and move forward to the next experience? How can you learn from these situations? It’s a complex issue that I ponder.

At the end of the day, every individual seems to desire the ability to trust blindly, despite the inherent fear in doing so. Everyone wants control over their surroundings and desires their plans to unfold flawlessly. Yet, what I’ve come to realize is that striving for such control can be emotionally and physically exhausting. It might be more conducive to well-being to accept things as they come, internalize them, and recognize that life progresses regardless. What’s meant for you will remain, and what isn’t will naturally exit your life.

But this mindset becomes even more intricate. While you aim to adopt this mindset and live positively, you also don’t want to disregard your emotions. Perhaps there are ways to address this conflict. Some suggest setting unwavering boundaries—anyone who crosses them is simply not meant for you. This approach might seem simple if we were purely logical creatures. However, what sets us apart and makes us complex is the fusion of logic and emotion. Our struggles arise from the interplay between the two.

For now, the best approach I can propose is to accept life as it unfolds, to trust blindly, to rebuild trust if it’s broken, and to love relentlessly. Keep an open mind and continue seeing the best in people, irrespective of doubts. And if necessary, establish nonnegotiable boundaries, but be willing to adjust them for the right person.